Showing posts with label sex. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sex. Show all posts

Friday, June 10, 2016

The Uselessness of Polls

There are alot of things to learn during an election year, both about people and the country that we live in.  One of the things that is very visible is how the use of polls really does effect the decisions that are not only made by our government but by the people that live in it.


All we hear in these polls is that this candidate leads this candidate or this candidate is polling better so they will be winning everything.  We hear that this is what people in the country think or want.  Some of the polls bring out good and some bring out bad.  What I wonder about polls is why we actually listen to them when they do not answer alot of questions.


Something that is so illogical about polls, is that they only take the opinion of anywhere between 1,000 and 2,000 people.  The number of people who will be part of the poll is determined by the people who are running the poll.  In a country of 320 million people, 2000 people make up .00000625 percent of the country.  A crazy small sample yet it is used as if it was one of the most important things in the country.


Another issue is how do we really know what questions were asked?  If a poll says 3 out of 10 women do not have an orgasm during sex, how do we know the exact question they asked?  Sex can be made of many different acts and some women do not orgasms during the physical penetration but may during the oral part.  So if you ask them generally about sex and they think only the physical act, they may say no.


What about the real emotions and feelings of people during the poll?  For example, if one's daughter was just murdered by a person of color, would they say they were in favor of the death penalty where maybe they were not before?  Would they then agree that people of color are justly incarcerated versus white's?  I think people forget that sometimes it is hard to be objective when your emotions and feelings are in different places at the time the question is asked.


What about the part of the country that we live in.  If you ask more people in Texas about abortion than in Colorado, you might get more answers in one direction over another.  Is that really a reasonable response if it is isolated to one area over another?


What about race, gender, sexual oreintation, etc.  All of these are going to get different responses but it doesn't mean that these responses represent all of these groups as a whole.


Let's look at some examples of polls that are currently being used.


Death Penalty


In a poll last year on the death penalty, they got a response of 1,015 people.  The only question they asked is do you agree with the death penalty for murder?  The poll said 61% favored, 37% did not and 2% had no opinion.  Is this really what the country thinks of the death penalty?


What also can't be determined here is what kind of murder do they favor.  Is manslaughter included in that, what about accidental homicide?  What about someone that kill someone while drunk driving?


What about circumstances such as Ted Bundy or Charles Manson?  Does having them in the poll change the thinking of the death penalty?


http://www.gallup.com/poll/186218/solid-majority-continue-support-death-penalty.aspx?


Socialism v Capitalism


A subject of this election year was the subject of socialism versus capitalism.  Surprisingly a poll done in May 2016 says 60% people have a positive view of Capitalism while 35% have a positive view of Socialism.


The sample was 1,544 people.  What is interesting about it is that even though 60% say they favored capitalism, 85% actually said they favor free enterprise.  How many realize that capitalism is based on the prospect of free enterprise?


Also what was funny is that 53% said they were favorable towards corporations while 96% said they were favorable about small businesses.  Small business thrive on capitalism just as much as corporations but it is the corporations that are always called evil.


When taking ages into consideration, even the younger generation that is favoring all of the 'free' government stuff only 55% still said they favor socialism in the 18-29 and 30-49 was at 27%.  This is a small amount considering the amount of people fighting for this in the election.  The final ironic part of this poll is this same group of 18-29 had a 57% approval of capitalism.  Doesn't this say something about the validity of polls?


http://www.gallup.com/poll/191354/americans-views-socialism-capitalism-little-changed.aspx?


Marijuana


A huge debate in the country is the legalization of marijuana.  Since some states have started legalizing it and are bringing in tons of money, I am sure this will be polled to death for a long time.


So the most recent poll was how many support the legalization of marijuana.  It was 58% supporting in a sample of 855.


Not surprising people 18-34 approve at 71% while people over 65+ represent only 35%.
The one question that is interesting to me that really no one asks is why do you want it legalized?  Is it so it can be used more medically, is it to decriminalize people or is it the simple fact that people want to be high all the time to forget their problems?


http://www.gallup.com/poll/186260/back-legal-marijuana.aspx?


Politics


There is no place where polls are used more than in politics.  The really amazing thing is that it is not just used to determine who will get elected but pretty much how politicians judge the mood of the people.  So when politicians say 58% of people want legalized marijuana, they are telling you how you should think based on the response of 855 people.


Politicians are even using polls to tell you why you should vote for them.  Bernie Sanders is using a poll to try to get people to vote for him that says he is stronger to run against Donalad Trump.  If you use the You/Gov poll that says Sanders is at 48% v 37% for Trump.  This is based on 1,635 registered voters.  Meanwhile Rasmussen has Clinton at 42% to 38% for Trump out of 1,000 likely voters.


What questions were asked to determine this, was it just who would you vote for?  What about why are you voting for this person?  What about the issues that this person stands for, are they important?


What is interesting about this poll is that only 85% and 80% were even saying they would vote for these candidates.  That leaves 15% and 20% undecided, not voting or going to vote for someone else or could even vote for Trump which would put him over the top.


It also says one poll uses registered voters and one uses likely voters.  So in one poll, people who may be thinking of registering are not taken into consideration.  In the other poll, we do not even know if anyone is even going to vote.


I think when we see these polls, we really do not see how this will effect people when others take these polls seriously.  If a poll of 1,200 people ask what is the most important issue facing this country and the Economy is first and racism is 5th, which one do we believe will be taken more seriously?  Racism is killing people, putting people in jail and having people actually considering putting up walls between countries, yet it is only 5th most important.  Is that logical?
Polling to me is the most useless piece of information out there.  The right questions are not being asked, it doesn't take everyone into consideration and it is based on a one time question.  There has to be a better way of getting to know what people in this country really want.


These are the numbers that are used to determine elections, the future of the country and the people in it.  It is sad when candidates start using the polling of elections against their opponent but what is even more sad is how we the people would take the advice of 1,100 instead of our own will.


I have more to say on the subject but I am hungry and need to go ask 800 people what to have for dinner.


Saturday, February 14, 2015

No Logic...Ending the Debate of Banning Gay Marriage


I was really interested in seeing for myself if the gay marriage topic was worth fighting for on either side.  So I read some articles on what people thought were the top reasons for being against gay marriage.  I read some articles on why the reasons were not valid.  In the end, what I realized is that there was no logical reason for banning gay marriage.

Here are the arguments that I say make no logical sense:

Religious

            It is against God’s law.  SO WHAT!!

Actually, homosexuality is ‘against’ God’s law so marriage is just an extension of that.  If gay people want to go against God’s law then let them be judged when it is their time.  Everyone else who commits sins has to be judged so there is no difference.

            It is not natural. WHY!!

What is the definition of natural?  Being in nature?  Well, animals are part of the natural world and they cannot marry so doesn’t that must mean that marriage doesn’t follow natural law.  Are we saying that gay people deserve less than animals?  Humans are not the only species on this planet, even though we like to think we are.

            It will have reverse discrimination for religious groups.  HOW!!

Homosexuals are probably not allowed in church today so would that change if they were allowed to be married?  Churches already have the right to turn away anyone from getting married so in this case they will still be allowed to be the religious bigots they always were.

It will cause people to have to have to deal with gay couples in their jobs such as issuing marriage license, even though their religion is against it.  GET OVER IT!!

So now we are going to say that people have the right in their job to not service anyone they do not care for.  Does Jim Crow laws sound familiar?

            To make sure we cover the basics, let’s see how using the Bible as an argument against gay marriage is illogical:

            The Bible says that divorced people having sex after the divorce are committing adultery (Matthew 5:32).  In that case we need a law that bans divorce because God tells us to. 

The Bible also says that if someone sleeps with a virgin and is not betrothed to her, then he must pay a price for that virgin and marry her (Exodus 22:16).  We should have police make sure that people sleeping with virgins marry those said virgins.  If they are paying for the price of the virgin, is that prostitution or slavery?

The Bible states that a woman should submit to their husbands as the husband is the head of the wife( Ephesians 5:22:33).  Why is there not a law to make sure women obey their man?
 
Marriage

            It will ruin the institution of marriage.  NOT LIKELY!!

Let’s see, 50% of marriages end in divorce so I am sure that doesn’t ruin the institution.

Marriage is not a religious institution as someone can get married at the courthouse or by Elvis in Vegas.

            At one time it was not legal for people of different races to marry, now that this is legal does that ruin the institution of marriage?

            Going back to the bible again, it says polygamy is okay as long as it is in the laws of marriage.  So humans outlawed polygamy, not God. (Deut: 17:14-19 is about kings not polygamy).  Why then is this not fought to overturn?

There are many states that with parental consent, people under 18 can be married and in some with a court order can marry under the age of 16.

The institution of marriage has already been changed by man so how can anyone say that gay marriage will ruin the institution.

Lifestyle

            The gay lifestyle will be more highlighted with gay marriage.  HOW!!

Since when does a marriage of any kind highlight a lifestyle?  I have a Hispanic friend who married an Oriental woman, did their marriage highlight their different cultures to the outside world?

It's a good thing our laws have made the lifestyle of racial discrimination or bigotry go away.  Oh wait...they didn't.

Children go to school with all different people, including racists, poor people, etc.  So what does it matter if your children go to school with children of gay people?

The Bible says tattoos are against God's law (Leviticus 19:28).  So when are we going to create laws that ban tattoos and then make sure tattoo artists are put in jail for flaunting their lifestyle.

            Gay people are already in the world, so their lifestyle is already out there, how does that change with marriage?  People should be more highlighted by what makes them different maybe then it would bring out more tolerance.

 

Children

            I saved the best for last.

            The main reason for marriage is to procreate.  GREAT!!

If the act of sex is only to procreate, then we should:

Outlaw sex in any position that is not missionary (especially that doggy style) and oral sex.  We should have a monitor for all times that sex is being done when there is no chance to create a child.

            All couples that do not want a child need to have their marriage dissolved.

            All couples who cannot create a child need to have their marriage dissolved

            Children should have a mother and a father.  Then:

                        Single parents should be arrested for not being married.

                        No matter how abusive the significant other is, they should not divorce.

            Children who grow up with gay parents will become gay

                        So that means a child of a child abuser will always become a child abuser.

                        So that means an atheist will always become an atheist.

                        So that means a child of a porn star will always become a porn star.

In the end this is about people thinking everything they believe is what everyone else should believe.  So I say to those people:  The next time you are doing your sexual obligation, think if you want someone in your room judging you about it.  The next time you quote a Bible verse as your defense think about other parts of the Bible that you do not live by.  The next time you want to instill your belief on someone, ask yourself how would you react if they wanted to instill their belief on you. 

My final comment is for everyone to ask themselves how their life changes if gay people get married.  Then leave gay people alone and let them have the same expression of their love as anyone else.